Well this has been a hot week. Today is going to be even hotter. It makes it very hard for Jack. Over heating is a major concern with his disease. He has a cooling vest but in this type of heat staying in the AC is the best option for him. He said last night before bed, "can we pray about the hot weather mommy". He also said "make sure I don't get sick or die tomorrow". People might think that is a bit dramatic but that is the seriousness of Jack's disease. He is also having sun and skin sensitivities. He burns extremely easy. He is also experiencing scaring issues. We have talked to his specialist here and it is not uncommon with Jack's disease to have these issues. It is something we are going to talk about with the specialist in Cleveland when we go in August. The specialist here gave us some fancy names and things to look up.
Last night really made me think. Jack is 7 years old and is starting to have real concerns for his health and safety. That is because we have been really trying to teach him about everything. He has to learn how to take care of himself and recognize warning signs in his body. People look at Jack and he appears pretty normal. It is easy in a school setting or when we are not present for someone to over look something with Jack and him be in a life threatening situation. We have had no choice but to start teaching him the seriousness of his disease. It is hard because I do not want to scare him. We have had no choice but to explain the steps and worst case scenarios of what can happen if proper care is not taken in all different types of situations.
I hear people complain all the time. I even find myself complaining about things. Last night it made me realize how hard it is for Jack. He is 7 and has to think about what can happen if someone doesn't notice or help him prevent something. He has to think about the weather. He cant always play the things the other children do. I watch him get picked last for games because he is the slowest or falls. He is the one that none want on their team because he is slow. He has so many daily struggles. Walk one day in his shoes and it would make us all appreciate our lives a bit more.
Jack takes each day at a time and is a very happy person. He has a great sense of humor and is very kind. He is starting to really have to deal with daily frustrations. He is starting to have to deal with the reality of his disease and how it effects his life. He struggles with that at times. He has fear and questions. He has frustrations and moments of disappointment. Regardless, he gets up the next day with a smile on his face and he tries very hard to have a good day.
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